Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Doctored relationships

relationships

What does relationship mean?? It is a state of connectedness between people especially an emotional connection.  Being a social animal, we all have relationships. But to what extend are we emotionally involved.... say in a friendly relationship, in a love relationship, or in parental relationship etc.....? The point to ponder is the word "emotional".

We all use the word "affair" to depict a "love affair". The actual meaning of affair is- an intense amorous relationship, usually of short duration- A romantic and sexual relationship between two people who are not married to each other. But we all proclaim that somebody or even ourselves is having an affair. Do we really mean it that way? Or is it just that we are following the language that we are used to.

But in the recent times, relationships especially friendship and love have taken a slue towards the right meaning of the term "affair"....not to mention the emotional quotient. Relationships have been manipulated and doctored in all possible ways. Even a ten year old have started approaching the opposite sex just for the "affair" factor. Just imagine the plight of things when he/she grows up.

Lets not act as if we are not prone to it. It definitely includes you and me and it emphatically affects us. It definitely requires our sincere effort and ageless struggle towards building a better place to live.

Lets pray for a better place to live..... a place where each of us are emotionally attached to each other... Lets pray that we are filled and repleted with moral values and flavours of unfeigned love and care...... Lets pray........ !!!

2 comments:

Prasand said...

Are you talking about relationship or love affair?

If you are talking about relationship - it got lots of meaning and not limited to just love affair. It is a state of connectedness between people especially an emotional connection. Relationship with your friend and sister is different. Girl friend and wife is different etc.

Yes if you look at love affairs – it is just a matter of personal concern – a type of relationship – and it is not a blood relationship unless you have a baby as a result. You have the freedom, flexibility to play around. But being a teenage, you are excited about all such relationships. I would say it is natural - as they learn how to deal with people. They learn from their experience which is very very important to manage an important life as a husband to lead a family, or a mother to maintain the happiness of a family.

Anish said...

Awasome brother...very touching